ZACHARY CAIN PHILLIPS – NEATH/SWANSEA

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| Zachary Cain Phillips| 25 | Seven Sisters neath|

This is not a post I ever wanted to make and I never bring my problems to Facebook but I am terrified for the next girl he will do this to. During mine and Zachary Cain Phillips relationship I experienced mental and physical abuse from him that no person should have to go through.

The first 6 months was great I thought I met the perfect man but that wasn’t the case at all. On the 19th July 2025 Zachary came back to my house after a night out and became a completely different person. I excused zach of cheating on me( later found out to be true) this night was absolutely terrifying as his personality switched in seconds. He instantly starting screaming at me, went up to my bedroom and proceeded to smash my room up, throwing around my belongs and a glass table top this went on for hours. His anger towards me like this would often go on all throughout the night.

The next day I received a text from a girl explaining that he did cheat that night and had made girls feel extremely uncomfortable due to him trying to take complete advantage of an intoxicated girl. I confronted zach about this where he proceeded to scream in my face again, then slam me into my kitchen door, where he held me against my counter just to get right in my face to scream at me.

I managed to get Zach to leave my property at this time which he proceeded to threaten to take his own life as a low tactic to manipulate me then he proceeded to smash his own phone to pieces and post this through my letter box, again another manipulation tactic. He was screaming outside my house throughout the night whist I was actively having a panic attack on my stairs.

He then proceeded to smash my ring door bell until it was unusable( he later used this as a reason why I’m more “ safe” for him to be at my house) and smash my wing mirror of my car. Zach heavily threatened to take his life after this and I stupidly did not see this as a manipulation tactic and felt sorry for him. Zach agreed to go sober after this as he struggles with drug addiction but on this night Zach did not consume any drugs.

Throughout July- October 2025 I was gaslit and made to believe that I was worthless and damaged goods and that no other man would love me due to being a single mum.

Fast forward to the end of October I found multiple different girls on Zachs Facebook. I confronted him about this which Zach proceeded to admit that he’d masturbate over these multiple different girls in my bathroom.

Now the reason I managed to snap out of his manipulation was because multiple of these girls were young or mums and their profile pictures that he was masturbating over had their young children in them. Of course I confronted him on this as being a mum myself.

he explained he has a sex problem leading him to be unable to stop this along with him confessing to masturbating in his own mother’s shoes.

I of course wanted to leave the relationship which he again threatened to take his own life and I had to grab wire from his hands to stop this. I was made to believe that If Zach did take his own life then this would be completely my fault. I then grabbed his phone and threw it at the floor. now I will admit this was wrong of me but seen as he was masturbating over pictures with children in them and me having a child myself I saw red as any other mother would.

He then proceeded to grab me throw me into the side of my freezer knocking me to the floor and holding me down on the floor until I said sorry for touching his phone( video of my bruises below, where you can clearly see knuckle marks from him) I was completely taken back by this and was scared that he was going to kill me.

So I kept myself in my bathroom where I realised he had sprained my arm in this process. Whilst this was going on I texted his mother ( Lisa Phillips) explaining he’s being violent and threw me into a freezer and to please come get him which she couldn’t care less about and texted Zach saying “pack it in” that’s it. For the 24 hours after this I was heavily made to believe this was my fault for touching his phone, at the same time Zach was suggesting ideas of what I can say to A&E about my sprained arm to make it seem like it wasn’t a attack on me.

zach came to my house again a week later around 3:30pm and by 5pm that night I had to ring 999 due to zach becoming violent again towards me where he was screaming in my face.
I tried to get him to leave my house which he proceeded to block me in my door way and hit me repeatedly with my own door to try to get into my house. I luckily managed to close my door in time, which zach then proceeded to break.
Police officers arrived and I believe that’s the only reason I wasn’t more injured that day. Zachary Cain Phillips is a dangerous man who told me nothing but lies. I was made to feel like a shell of a person throughout this relationship. He completely isolated me from my friends and family leaving with with almost no one. Every thing I did had to go through him first which I meant I did hardly anything or seen hardly anyone during this year including my own family.

The attacks against me and the words he called me is something I’ll have to live with for the rest of my life, and this is why I’m making this post because he will do this again.

I found out this week that zach was in a romantic relationship with a 14 year old girl ( groomed) whilst he was 18 and serving in the navy at this time.

I also believe Zach is this way because his parents enable this behaviour. Zachs father said to him to not hit a woman because “they’ll press charges”not because it’s not okay to attack your partner?.

I am not the only girl he has ever done this too. sadly there is a long line of girls who have similar stories to me and most have worse injuries and received worse abuse than I did.

I so badly wanted to believe Zach was a good man but that isn’t the case at all and he will do this again and again until he’s stoped. I am completely embarrassed by this situation but I will not be silenced by a man.